There’s a sin issue in our life.

Do we really want to accept it? Others may not see, but we know it’s there. And in that moment we have a choice, based on our personal conviction. Is there a desire to practice the Biblical concept of confession? There’s healing to be had if we’re willing to do the work.

First, confession to God, which is easier, because we know He knows and it’s a vital part to our faith and relationship with Him. What about confession one to another? The kind of confession stated in James, chapter five?

“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” (James 5:16)

It’s hard but worth it.

In that moment, when we feel conviction, we may not know to whom we should be confessing. If we’ve wronged someone directly, that’s pretty straight forward. We go to them, confess how we have sinned against them, and ask for their forgiveness.

What if it’s a personal, more secret sin? Perhaps, a moral failure within the realm of lust, gluttony, or pride? What if it’s an internal sin issue that hasn’t directly affected anyone directly, but you know it’s a problem that needs to be addressed? What happens then?

We need accountability.

Sometimes, directly stated as an accountability group or accountability partner. Sometimes, it’s a best friend or mentor. I would suggest not choosing your spouse as an accountability partner or mentor, especially related to ongoing confession. Although, there are very clear levels of confession with a spouse that need to be a part of the marriage covenant.

Personally, I have experienced the benefit and accountability that comes from sharing my personal struggles with other men. Often in a small group or an older male mentor. I would suggest that gender matching, men with men and women with women, for purposes of accountability is the best plan of action.

Why everyone needs accountability.

I haven’t met anyone who doesn’t need it. Likely because I haven’t met anyone who’s perfect. We’re all fallen and sinful. We all got stuff, and we all have the propensity to hide stuff. If we don’t have someone challenging us to confess on a regular basis, by asking the tough questions that most people shy away from, we’re missing out on a deeper level of relationship with other believers.

Moreover, we’re greatly missing out on a key piece of spiritual growth. We’re not experiencing the fullness of what God has intended for us. Confession, forgiveness, and restoration are not common in our world, but are core to our Christian faith. We should be putting it into practice on a regular basis.

Don’t just take it from me.

If you have the time, check out this video journal by Christian artists, Tenth Avenue North. They suggest that “healing begins” with confession of sin. I think they’re on to something. Maybe even something Biblical?

If you have more time, I suggest you also check out these “Healing Begins” music videos created by Tenth Avenue North, aligned with the video journal above. I am sure they will be a further encouragement to you today.

Join the Conversation, Leave Your Thoughts

• What benefits have you experienced though the confession of sin to others?
• Why do you believe Christians should make it a regular faith practice?