The Benefits of Seeking Dependence Instead of Independence – Small Group Study
Many of us try to live life without depending on other people.
No matter how hard life gets, something inside of us convinces us that we shouldn’t ask for help. We try to walk through deep valleys of trial and pain, relying solely on our own strength. In reality, it’s just not possible.
The Bible teaches us that we were created to live in community with each other, but most importantly in communion with God. When we get over our own pride and insecurity, we can find relief within our heavenly Father and the people He has placed into our lives.
Check out the following video, “Strong Enough” by Matthew West. It’s a great song and a great presentation regarding the dependence on God and each other that we need to accept. Feel free to follow along with the lyrics provided.
VIDEO: “Strong Enough” by Matthew West
You must You must think I’m strong,
To give me what I’m going through.
Well, forgive me Forgive me if I’m wrong,
But this looks like more than I can do on my own.
I know I’m not strong enough,
To be everything that I’m supposed to be.
I give up I’m not strong enough,
Hands of mercy won’t you cover me.
Lord right now I’m asking you to be Strong enough,
Strong enough For the both of us.
Well, maybe, Maybe that’s the point,
To reach the point of giving up.
Cause when I’m finally, Finally at rock bottom,
Well, that’s when I start looking up and reaching out.
Cause I’m broken Down to nothing,
But I’m still holding on to the one thing.
You are God and you are strong When I am weak.
I can do all things Through Christ who gives me strength,
And I don’t have to be Strong enough Strong enough.
I can do all things Through Christ who gives me strength,
And I don’t have to be Strong enough Strong enough.
I know I’m not strong enough,
to be Everything that I’m supposed to be.
I give up I’m not strong enough,
Hands of mercy won’t you cover me.
Lord right now I’m asking you to be Strong enough,
Strong enough, Strong enough.
Small Group Study
- What hardships were depicted throughout this video? Can any of you relate to any of them? If so, how?
- In your opinion, what is the primary message being given throughout this video and where does DEPENDENCE fit in?
- Read Philippians 4:10-14. What do you know about Paul, the author of this letter to the Philippian church? Do you know of any hardships that he may have endured?
- How would you act or speak if you were in Paul’s situation? How do you think Paul is able to endure his hardships? Is DEPENDENCE a factor?
- In regards to your hardships, who or what do you generally DEPEND on for strength? Does it work? Why or why not?
- In Matthew West’s song, he quotes Philippians 4:13. Can you personally make this statement about your life? Why or why not?
- Take some time to share your personal and family hardships with each other, then pray for each other.
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- From whom do you seek dependence?
