Everyone Dies.

Though this is a true statement, it doesn’t make it an easier when we’re faced with the death of a friend or family member. Loss is hard. Then working through the mourning process is harder still.

In Ecclesiastes 3 we’re told that there is a time for everything, including “a time to mourn.” (3:4)

We can never really plan for a specific time to mourn. Although, I do believe we can prepare ourselves on some level.

When loss happens to a friend or acquaintance, it can be of great benefit to clear our schedules for them. There will always be work demands and planned days for recreation. But loss isn’t something we can mark on our calendars.

And if we led be example, friends, coworkers and other acquaintances might even rally around our efforts. Genuine care and support has to start somewhere. We might as well plan for it.

Why?

All of us know this kind of day will come. At some point, someone is going to pass, and we’ll have to make a choice to stand with them or carry on with our busy lives.

Why not choose to be prepared to use our gifts and abilities to assist in a time of mourning. Why not prepare ourselves mentally now, so that we know what kind of response we should have.

On the flip side, if we’re the one experiencing the loss of a loved one; wouldn’t we want the support?

When it’s our time to mourn, we’ll be more than willing to accept the help. There are details surrounding burial, memorials and even the needs of the day, that can all be cared for by the people around us.

As they rise to the occasion with their gifts and abilities, and surround us in service. We’ll allow them to serve and trust in their care, so that we can focus on grieving our loss.

The Church

The Body of Christ is brought into powerful unity in times of grief. Petty discussions on ministry plans, budgets and events get thrown to the wind, as God’s people surround their brothers and sisters.

The role of a ministry leader is to push everything aside and embrace those moments. Gifting in leadership and/or shepherding can aid in rallying the people. Not to mention the enumerable opportunities to share the Gospel with friends and family members.

We can assume that at some point in our ministry, we will be taking time to mourn. Why not plan on it? Ask ourselves, “How will I react? How will I bring support?“

Join the Conversation; Share Your Thoughts:

How has the Body of Christ surrounded you during a time of mourning?